I don’t know about you, but in the last 365 days I’m left to wonder if our entire nation has completely forgotten the teachings of our parents, grandparents, and founding fathers. If you are reading this to see what side of the aisle I’m on you’ll be disappointed. I’m staying right in the middle. And from where I’m standing things look pretty disgraceful.
My parents and grandparents advised that conversations about money, politics and religion are not mannerly in social environments. Any of the aforementioned topics will bring down your fan base by at least 50% and since we’ve become a society in search of “likes”, “faves” and “followers” it would seem to be ill-advised to publish your political views on Facebook. But it’s happening! You want to conduct an experiment to see how fast you are blocked from devout friends and close family? Answer: post ANYTHING political, sit back and watch. Why? Because my parents and grandparents are correct. When someone behaves in a socially inappropriate way they will suffer the consequences. The friend count starts to dwindle and the party invitations dry up.
I work in an industry which requires that my local and social media audiences see me a certain way, ergo I refrain from posting any political, religious or financial material. Perhaps the countless Twitter and Facebook posts both instigating and defending political and religious stances are from people who will never apply for a job, do business within a 100 mile radius of where they live, use an online dating service or need a friend. I choose to keep my postings about happy things like little life victories, cute kittens and the occasional sales victory. I can’t imagine anyone wanting to read about their real estate agent’s views on God or choice in this past election. People go on Facebook and Twitter to connect with people and wind up getting bullied. Social Media Expert Jody Barrett says of her successful generation of 240,000+ (all real) followers on Twitter, “Keep your content consistently positive, friendly and engaging.”
Our founding fathers built a country, a government and a constitution citing certain unalienable rights such as freedoms of religion, speech, pursuit of happiness. Our founding fathers, Washington, Jefferson, Franklin, Adams and so many other great thinkers, chose their words carefully in an effort to establish a great nation, but also a civil society. Jody Barrett cautions, “To some degree your social media reveals your mindset. You are what you tweet.” So I ask, what would a founding father say about posting political views, religious stances and financial exploits? “Speak not but what may benefit yourself or others” – Benjamin Franklin